My brother passed away while I was home visiting in the States. Thank God I was there at the time. When I came back to Greece and was finally alone, I broke down. Fell on the floor crying and begging that he (his spirit) never leave my side. I felt compelled to turn on the radio, I ignored the sign and continued on, but the tug was there..I went to the radio and turned it on and for the first time in my life, I heard By Your Side. I had never heard it before and thank Sade for this song...it's my song from my brother.